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Fertility Rally is an all-inclusive community, created for EVERYONE who is going through infertility, has gone through infertility, has questions about fertility in general, or who is building their modern families in a “non-traditional” way.

We see you–and we want you to know that you’re not alone. This space is for anyone seeking support, curated information, inclusion, humor, kick ass virtual and IRL events and awesome discounts while navigating the rocky AF waters of fertility, infertility, intended parenthood and beyond (because the truth is, even if you’re “done” with infertility, your story doesn’t necessarily end there).

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Nov 24

HEY RALLY FAM!

Did you know that we have an interview series on our site called "10 Mins With..." in which we interview big and interesting voices from all aspects of the infertility community?

Our thought was that these quick, irreverent, fun interviews would be the perfect things to watch while sitting in your doctor's waiting room—but really, they can be watched any time you have 10 minutes to spare. (And yes, we time them so they are quick and dirty and easily digestible!)

Our latest "10 Mins..." is with Sasha Hakman, aka Dr. Fierce. @sashahakmanmd

Sasha is a board certified OBGYN, a vegan powerlifter, a PCOS warrior, and a phenomenal woman who answers our rapid fire questions about why she got into this field, how she got the nickname Dr. Fierce, her favorite Beyonce song, and more ⚡️⚡️⚡️

We've also done "10 Mins With..."
<a class='bp-suggestions-mention' href='https://fertilityrally.com/members/samanthabusch/' rel='nofollow'>@samanthabusch</a>
@jennjaypal
@myfertilitycare
@bean.and.biscuit
Who else would you like to see?
Drop their name below!

Members, check these interviews out! If you are not yet a member, make sure to get on the waiting list at link in bio.

⚡️⚡️WE HAVE A HUGE MEMBERSHIP SURPRISE COMING TOMORROW! ⚡️⚡️

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Nov 23

It’s #membercrushmonday & today we are showing some extra love to @lauraadamsartist 💕

Hometown: Wayne, Pennsylvania

#TTCjourney in a nutshell: Trying to conceive for two and a half years with #MFI and #PCOS—starting our first round of IVF this month!

Guilty pleasure: My daily afternoon tea ritual 🍵

Go-to mantra: “With God all things are possible.” 🙌🏻

Three fun facts about Laura:

1) The coast of Maine is my happy place.. I can sit watching the waves crash for hours.

2) I actually love budgeting and Excel spreadsheets (which is useful when you’re trying to pay for #IVF)

3) I’m obsessed with interior decorating and my dream is to eventually start some type of design consulting business (whenever I get passed the nightmare of #infertility)!

Help us show some love to Laura! Laura, we are cheering you on as you take on IVF, you’re gonna rock it 💪🏽 😘

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Nov 20

Hey Rally fam 👋🏻

It’s #founderfriday so I’m sharing a little about me. I chose this picture because it shows that you don’t have to sacrifice the things that bring you joy just because 2020 is a dumpster fire 🗑 🔥

Facts about me:

- I am obsessed w/ holidays, especially Christmas

- I love volunteering. I was raised to always give back to my community & it is one of the most fulfilling things I do.

- I love animals. When I was a child my bed was covered in stuffed ones. I’ve had everything from turtles, snakes & tarantulas to cats, dogs & hamsters. I currently have 14 animals & would have more if I could. I recently realized having so many goes beyond loving feathers & fur; I have so many because of my intense desire to love & nurture.

So with all of that in mind, here I am not letting 2020 rob me of my joy. Yes, I’m in my mask (which is now just excuse for more cute accessories), but I am still volunteering, being goofy on this unicorn & getting in the Christmas spirit. 🦄 🎄

What brings you joy?! How are you still making it happen despite this crisis year? Your ideas could inspire others so please share in comments 👇🏼

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Nov 19

🎁🎁HAPPY RALLIDAYS!🎁🎁

Guys, we made you an ornament!

We know that the holiday season can be THE WORST—full of triggers and heartache and questions from family members and all the feels.

We also know that it's important to find the joy where you can get it, whether it's decorating early, slipping out to grab a festive mocha choco frappy peppermint latte or collecting holiday trinkets that make you smile.

We hope our sweet little (3-inch) ceramic ornament is a reminder that no matter where you are on this journey, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. We will all get through this holiday season together. Pinky promise.

From now until Saturday, it's just $10 (plus $3 shipping domestic/$5 shipping Canada) via Paypal or Venmo. To snag yours, email us at thefertilityrally@gmail.com with your name and address, and we'll take it from there. (It's also an adorbs gift to send your #TTC sisters--just sayin!)

We have some other fun RALLIDAYS events planned too, so stay tuned!

We love you!
Ali and Blair

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Nov 18

Hey Rally Fam! If you don’t already follow, @jazzkatat - go do it!

Not only is she an #ivfwarrior with an incredible story, she is a strategist coach & artist who works with women to focus on the importance of SELF. We must say, her art is beautiful! Just look at this graphic!

This week at the second part of our Rally Together Support Group, Jasmine will join us to share her story & lead us through a “reframing exercise” where we will take a question we all ask ourselves on our #infertilityjourney & reframe it into the bigger picture. RSVP on our member site & bring a pen and paper!

It’s going to be amazing!

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Nov 17

If you’ve gone through #ivf, did you test your embryos?

At Rally LIVE this was a hot topic on our Who Run the World: Superstar Female REs panel. It is a highly debated subject in the field of reproductive medicine and a decision many of us patients have a hard time with.

This poll was taken the day of Rally LIVE, and while you can see the majority have tested, many have not.

If you’re debating it, you can arm yourself with expert knowledge by either checking out the panel mentioned above (all Rally LIVE programming is available until 11/23) and/or you can check out our “All Things IVF” event that you can find on fertilityrally.com under past events.

We would love to hear if you tested your embryos. Why or why not?! Drop your answer in comments below 👇🏼

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Nov 16

It's #membercrushmonday!

Today we are crushing on our amazing member, Sarah Weintraub. Here's a bit about her. Follow her at @iamstillsarah for even more!

HOMETOWN: Sacramento, CA

TTC JOURNEY IN ONE SENTENCE: It's been a longer and harder journey than I ever could have imagined, but I still believe it will happen for us.

GUILTY PLEASURE: Chocolate

GO-TO MANTRA: "Tomorrow is a new day." (My husband says this to me before bed whenever I've had a hard day.)

THREE FUN FACTS:

1. My husband and I met on a dating app and I asked him on our first date.

2. I ran a half marathon 7 years ago and haven't run a day since.

3. I love cooking and trying new recipes, but rarely follow recipes as they're written.

Sarah, the Rally wouldn't be the same without you! We love you and are rooting for you, girl!

xoxo Ali and Blair

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Nov 13

It's Founder Friday, the new feature where Blair and I are sharing something personal to hopefully help you on your #fertilityjourney.

I've talked about this before, but I will say it again and again, because it's important to let you know that you are not alone:

Secondary Infertility almost ruined my relationship with Vince.

We started dating at 16, when Vince had braces on his teeth (!!) and I was an aerobics instructor at Women's Workout World. (It was the mid-90s, yall. 😂) We got married at 27, not rushing into having kids. At 35, I had our daughter, Ever.

Then for three years, we struggled through infertility hell. Four miscarriages, two IUIs, dozens of OPKs, countless tears. I was depressed. I wanted another baby more than anything. We fought about sex, money, doing IVF, and the different ways we were processing the shit we were going through. At one point, we were at an impasse and I said to him, "Are we gonna make it?" And he said, 'I honestly don't know."

It wasn't easy, and it never is, but here we are. I always say that marriage is a decision. And we made a decision to fight for ours.

I'm mentioning this again because it needs to be screamed from the rooftops that the immeasurable havoc infertility wreaks on your relationship is part of this whole thing. It's normal. It sucks, but it's normal. I will show you my darkness so hopefully you can come into the light.

My only advice would be to talk to each other. Sometimes it's easier to take car rides or walks so you're not staring each other in the face, making an intense conversation that much more intense. Get therapy if you can. Fight for it if you want to. Take it a day at a time.

It's hard, guys. I'm not gonna lie. But you are not alone.

Love, Ali

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Nov 12

Today we’re answering another Q from our community in our Rally version of Dear Abby. (Always remember, this is just our friendly advice—run everything by your doctor first!)

This week:
How does acupuncture benefit fertility treatments?

Our answer:
Acupuncture is the therapeutic insertion of needles, based on the Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) theory that channels flow through the body, conducting the flow of vital energy and helping to regulate the way in which the body functions.

TO SUPPORT FERTILITY

From a TCM perspective, when the energy in the body is imbalanced, it can lead to illness and physical issues, including infertility. More fertility specialists are recognizing the benefits of acupuncture and recommending it to their patients to help with their fertility journeys and to increase their chances of healthy conception and birth. During the procedure, the acupuncturist inserts sterile (painless) needles into specific points on your body, which connect with 14 major pathways called meridians. When needled, these points can help regulate the way in which the body functions.

Acupuncture has also been known to increase blood flow to the reproductive organs, balancing the endocrine system (where sex, mood and sleep hormones are manufactured) and helping reduce stress. Acupuncture for fertility can provide better blood flow to the ovaries and uterus, helping improve the quality and receptivity of sperm and eggs, and creating a stronger chance for an egg to be nourished and carried to term. Needling can also help regulate ovulation and ease the pain of endometriosis, a common factor in infertility, according to some studies.

TO AID PREGNANCY

The goal of acupuncture for fertility is not just to get pregnant, but to stay pregnant and maintain a healthy, stress-free pregnancy. Acupuncture can aid in many different ways, both mentally and physically. For one, it optimizes the circulation of blood, oxygen and nutrients to help improve the quality of the uterine lining and uterus as a whole.

It can also help decrease symptoms of morning sickness, reduce heartburn and assuage lower back and pelvic pain.

Have a Q? Drop it below❤️

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Nov 11

What the heck am I doing with Rubik’s cube & hat props?!

I’m getting ready for the FREE TO ATTEND @resolveorg Night of Hope being held this Thursday, Nov 12th from 8:00-9:30 PM ET!

This year it’s an 80’s theme with a nod to Back to the Future (hence the props) - see more awesomeness in our stories!

The Night of Hope focuses on what we can do together as a community & celebrates those committed to opening the doors of opportunity for everyone struggling with #infertility to build a family.

A breakdown of the night:

8-8:30 PM: Resolve will give three Hope Awards for Advocacy (shout out to our girl @chloemelas) & one for Access in addition to the Advocacy Legend Award.

8:30-9:30 PM: Party for a Purpose 🎉 Enjoy some killer 80’s music by the @thespazmatics, updates from Resolve, mixology convo with some kick ass recipes & supporter shout outs!

Again, this event is FREE to attend virtually! Head over to @resolveorg or visit the link in our bio to learn how to attend @fertilityrally

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Nov 10

One of the perks of being a Rally member is the 24/7 community where you can interact with other members either through the Rally feed or one of these niche groups. One of our popular groups is #FET ❄️

In this group you will find women sharing their transfer dates, protocols, questions, advice, encouragement, symptoms, etc.

While we have groups that cover TONS of topics, we empower our members to start their own groups. This platform is for them after all! One of our fave member curated groups is, “Unique Uteruses” started by @jpsbivfjourney 💕

To get in on this action, visit the link in our bio to sign up for the waitlist to be the first to know when we open! Membership opens in December and we might have a surprise up our sleeves too 😉

What group(s) would you like to see? Share in comments 👇🏼

XOXO,

Blair & Ali

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Nov 9

Happy Monday Rally Fam! It’s #membercrushmonday time & this week we are crushin’ on <a class='bp-suggestions-mention' href='https://fertilityrally.com/members/laurenaredfern/' rel='nofollow'>@laurenaredfern</a> 💕

Hometown: Dingmans Ferry, PA

TTC journey in one sentence: “Unexplained and trying to figure out where to go from here.” 🙏🏼

Favorite treatment treat: Venti Pink Drink 💝

Guilty pleasure: Binge watching Vampire Diaries 🧛‍♀️

Your go to mantra or quote: "Am I good enough? Yes I am." Michelle Obama, Becoming 💪🏽

Three fun facts about Lauren:

1. I can find the perfect meme for any work situation 😂

2. I love cross stitching family portraits for family and friends 🧵

3. I am a master at finding coupon codes and discounts, I really don't like to pay retail 💰

Go give Lauren a follow. She is so amazing - look at that laugh!

Lauren, you’re awesome!

XOXO, Blair & Ali

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Nov 7

We are starting a little something fun on Friday called, “Founder Friday” where Ali or myself will come on our feed to share something to help on your #fertilityjourney - nothing is off limits!

One thing I get asked all the time is, “What are your tips for preparing for a frozen embryo transfer?” So let’s start there!

While I am not a doctor, I can share what I did before my last transfer. This is a collection of things I researched, learned from other warriors, & was instructed to do by my medical team (acupuncturist, RE & therapist). This isn’t my protocol, but rather habits & routines!

Mediation: Leading up to the transfer I mediated every night. I alternated between Yoga Nidra & Spirit Baby mediations. My fave apps are Expectful, Mindful IVF & Insight Timer.

Acupuncture: I went religiously every week for months leading up to the transfer. I mediated there too! Pro tip: take your headphones or pods & listen to your mediation while you’re on the table.

Supplements: I took my prenatal & DHA daily. I like Thorne prenatal & Nordic Naturals DHA.

Exercise: Starting a couple of weeks before & then after the transfer, I dialed my exercise routine back to just walking - 5 miles a day! I took a few days off after the transfer due to doctor’s orders.

Warm feet = warm womb: this is believed to be true in Chinese medicine; I slept & still sleep in cozy socks! I also kept a heating pad on my feet for weeks before & after my transfer while I slept.

Blood nourishing foods: to thicken the lining of my uterus I drank pomegranate juice, ate orange foods like carrots & sweet potatoes, lots of leafy greens & drank bone broth daily! (acupuncturist reco)

Avoided cold foods: to keep my body warm & digestion smooth, I focused on warm foods and room temperature water (acupuncturist reco)

Journaled: I wrote a letter to my embryo, wrote about things I thought/felt or things that Will said.

Went to therapy: every other week with my husband to talk through all of our anxiety & fear (we enjoy having a time & place to talk about the heavy shit so we can try to focus on other things otherwise)

I hope this helps!!! Comment with any questions & I’ll answer ASAP!

XOXO, B

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Nov 5

Each Thursday we will answer a Q from our community advice column style - a Rally version of Dear Abby if you will. This is a spin off of our blog feature on our member site.

This week’s question:

How do I emotionally & physically keep moving forward [on my #infertilityjourney] after repeat failure?

Our answer:

Dear emotionally & physically exhausted,

Infertility is not for the faint of heart; it brings even the strongest people to their knees. While there isn’t a “one size fits all” approach to keep trucking through the dark, messy & cold trenches, here are some tips on what has helped us & what has helped others we have talked to.

Emotionally:

❤️ Therapy - couples or solo, especially with someone who specializes in infertility; not only does having an unbiased third party work wonders, but it’s nice to hold a space to have the hard conversations & unload the heavy shit so you can live your life the rest of the time.

❤️ Self-care - mediation, baths, retail therapy, taking a day off to just be, reading a book, indulge in a spa treatment, etc.; all of these things can provide an important reset when you feel you’ve hit rock bottom.

❤️ Build up your support system - friends, family, social media buddies, a support group, your therapist; find who you’re comfortable opening up to & hold on tight.

Physically:

⏰ Take a break when it’s necessary - hormones do weird things to our bodies & after a failed treatment, not only do you feel shitty it didn’t work but you may not like how you look & feel physically. Taking a month (or two or three) off to get back to feeling like yourself again can make such a difference & get you ready to start again.

🙏🏼 Give yourself grace - we oftentimes get mad at or even claim we “hate” our bodies for not cooperating; instead think of how amazing it is that it’s even cooperating at all when we are pushing it so hard.

💪🏽 Stay active - unless you’re prohibited by your doctor or flat out don’t feel like it, stay active; a walk, a bike ride, spin class, garage workout, yoga practice, etc. - you’ll be surprised how good you feel (even after failure) when you move your body on a regular basis.

XOXO,

Blair & Ali

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Nov 4

WORST CLUB. BEST MEMBERS.

We can't think of one person who ever wanted to join this shitty, shitty infertility club.

But we can think of thousands of people who are now in it—and who are absolutely incredible. If our #fertilityconfessions movement this week (where more than 400 people used the hashtag) showed us anything, it's that this community is filled with strongAF people who want to help each other by blasting stigmas, shunning taboos and sharing the good, the bad and the ugly.

That’s why we created Fertility Rally. We are so proud to offer a safe space where people can find 24/7 community, ever-evolving content and tons of curated events.

We've poured our hearts into this community and this platform, and if you haven't already, we would love for you to join us.

From TWO support groups a week to expert Q and As and interviews to a real-time community of people who are IN IT, it's all here for you.

Memberships are $19.99/month or $199/year. We also have GIFTABLE memberships, the perfect answer to the question, "How do I help someone I love who is struggling?" Give them the gift of support for 3 months, 6 months, or a year.

Let us know if you have any questions. We are only open til November 7th, so join our fam now at link in bio!

YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

Love, Ali and Blair

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Nov 3

🇺🇸 Happy Election Day 🇺🇸

We do a lot of COOL SHIT here at @fertilityrally (if we do say so ourselves) - one of which is our weekly Cool Shit of the Week feature.

This week, we’re feathering our fave election finds. Item 3 is particularly cool - it’s the 100th anni of the 19th amendment that gave women the right to vote 💪🏽 👯‍♀️

If you haven’t voted yet, go do it! So many women fought their asses off for us to have this right!

For access to the full catalog of CSOTW features, a video library covering all sorts of #infertility topics, weekly support groups, extensive blog, 24/7 online community & so much more - join our membership! We have monthly & annual options. Membership is open until the 7th! Link in our bio @fertilityrally

XOXO, Blair & Ali 💕

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Nov 2

Happy Monday! We are starting a Rally member weekly spotlight called #membercrushmonday 💕

We are kicking it off with the amazing Kim Maimone! You can find her over at @mera_ruler_of_the_sea & @merasmission

Let’s get to know Kim better:

Hometown: Fernandina Beach, FL ☀️

#TTCjourney in one sentence: It’s been a marathon, not a sprint. 🏃‍♀️

Favorite treatment treat: French fries & Gatorade 🍟

Guilty pleasure: Pedicures! 💕

Your go to mantra or quote: Keep Fucking Moving! 💪🏽

Three fun facts about Kim:

1. I can recite the names of all 50 states in alpha order.

2. I’m obsessed w/ Harry Potter... I have a snitch tattoo.

3. I am an expert at starting kitchen fires.

Kim, we love you, your advocacy efforts within our #ttccommunity & your strong AF spirit! Thanks for letting us show you some extra love today 😘

XOXO, Blair & Ali

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Nov 1

💗FERTILITY RALLY MEMBERSHIPS ARE NOW OPEN!💗

It's Nov 1, which means that our memberships are open from now until Nov 7th.

The Worst Club with the Best Members offers 24/7 community, searchable profiles so you can connect with other members, a Rally Feed message board where you can ask questions, share treatment details and vent, plus our TWO WEEKLY SUPPORT GROUPS (one 45 min “anything goes” share and one 45 min featuring a fertility expert, warrior, doctor or coach).

Our Curated Content Includes:
⚡️Expert Q & As
⚡️Guest Blogs
⚡️Dear Rally Column
⚡️Bonus Podcasts hosted by Ali & Blair
⚡️”10 Mins w/...” chats w/ influencers & thought leaders
⚡️Meditation & Yoga Videos
⚡️Rally on Demand archive of dozens of past events
⚡️And so much more

As a member, you also get exclusive discounts on our favorite fertility-friendly brands, from @oova to @natalistco to @myvitro — plus 10% off all Rally merch.

Each month, we also have at least one themed event, such as “Building Your Modern Family When You’re LGBTQ,” “Infertility and Women of Color” and “All Things PCOS.”

This is the place we wish we'd had when we were in the thick of our shittyAF infertility journeys. This safe space is for everyone. Come and check out our fam!

Take it from our member, Cherish:
“I really want to thank you guys for creating such an awesome place for all of us women to meet. This journey is one of the hardest and loneliest that I have ever been through. I am 3 years into this journey and have been to many other fertility support groups but yours is my favorite. Not only is it such a raw and positive environment but I love the speakers that you guys have had the last few weeks.”

We have monthly memberships for 19.99, annual for $199 and GIFTABLE MEMBERSHIPS for 3 months, 6 months and a year.

Invest in yourself or a loved one. We’d love to Rally with you!

#rallylikeamofo

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Oct 30

No matter which way you lean, this is your friendly *Rally Reminder* to get out & vote!

As early voters in our respective states of New York & Texas, we can tell you that’s the way to go!

We included a link in our bio showing when early voting ends in each state. Check it out b/c some states (like Texas) end today!

Let’s exercise our civil rights, which so many before us fought for us to have 💪🏽 🇺🇸

#RALLYLIKEAMOFO

Blair & Ali

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Oct 29

Exercise & #infertility - such a hot topic. So many restrictions. So much conflicting information.

We are both exercise fiends - @soulcycle & spin fiends to be more precise 🚴 🔥

Sometimes exercise is the only outlet to get out all of the aggression & frustration that comes along with the waiting & failure. At the same time we have questions like, “How much is too much? What amount of exercise will negatively affect my treatments?”

That is why we are SO grateful to @bodyconceptions for writing this amazing article for our Rally site.

Read more by following the link in our bio @fertilityrally

What’s your fave form of exercise?! 👇🏻

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Oct 27

This week wouldn’t be complete without a Hocus Pocus GIF 👻 🧙‍♀️

While we can’t prevent your Cousin Helen with three kids all dressed in adorably triggering costumes from asking, “So when are you finally gonna have one of these?” - we can give you some tips on how to respond.

HARSH RESPONSE:
“If you want to see what a witch really looks like, ask me that again.” Hint: STFU

EDUCATIONAL RESPONSE:
“Did you know 1 in 8 couples experience infertility?” Hint: Think before you speak.

TACTFUL RESPONSE:
“It isn’t as easy for us as it is for some.” Hint: We are having a really hard time & I wish you wouldn’t have asked.

DODGE RESPONSE:
“We’re working on it.” Hint: Next topic, please.

When in doubt, head for the candy bowl for a Snickers. Hang in their #ttcsisters - Halloween can be triggering. Mute social, carve a pumpkin, light a fire, watch a horror flick & eat some candy. This too shall pass! 🎃

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Oct 25

Holy shit guys! The first ever Fertility Rally LIVE is in the books 👏🏼 🎉

By some miracle, we only experienced two minor technological hiccups - we will call that a success!!! We cried so many happy tears watching this happen today. We couldn’t do it without the support from all of you & we are grateful to you every single day! Whether you are a sponsor, speaker, member and/or attendee, this is possible because of you!

GOOD NEWS! The offish day may be over, but Fertility Rally LIVE lives on! That’s right, you can still buy tix & watch ALL the talks for the next 30 days! It was an amazing day - don’t take our word for it - head to our stories for what everyone who attended is saying 👯‍♀️

Link in our bio to buy tix @fertilityrally

#RALLYLIKEAMOFO (but first, we’re gonna get some sleep)

XOXO, Blair & Ali

PS: A little secret, Rally memberships are open until 11:59 PM ET 🤫

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Oct 24

🎉 G I V E A W A Y S 🎉

Another reason to buy a ticket to Rally LIVE, happening TOMORROW from 9-6ET!

We had so many amazing sponsors & partners donate items, we had to make a spreadsheet to keep track! The willingness to make others’ journeys better in this #ttccommunity is so inspiring. We can’t wait to give the items pictured here plus so many more away tomorrow 💕

Grab your ticket to the Rally for a chance to win & to have your mind blown by our amazing speakers by visiting the link in our bio @fertilityrally

We’d like to thank our giveaway sponsors:

@cozywarriororg
@fertilityinfocus
@uniquely_knitted
@anookathletics
@proovtest
@beli.baby
@darcydoodles
@kela_healthcoach
@incirclefertility
@mybinto
@mirafertility
@thewaitinglinebook
@brusso18
@expectful
@fairhavenhealth
@natalistco
@premamawellness
@wearerobyn
@tulipfertility

Reminder: ticket holders have access to the sessions & talks for 30 days after the event so if you can’t make it when it’s actually happening, no sweat!

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Oct 22

RALLY LIKE A MOFO

This has been our Fertility Rally motto since day one (alongsIde our tagline, Worst Club. Best Members.)

Rallying can mean so many things:
Joining together in one of the many support groups in our community, even if it's just to listen.

Sending a sweet text to a friend who got shitty and sad results.

Mailing a pineapple card to someone because you saw it at Target and it made you think of her.

Being one of your #ttcsisters "Closies" so she can confess her deepest anxieties.

Reading a book that someone else in this community poured their heart and soul into.

Buying a tee from someone's IVF fundraiser.

Sending virtual hugs and Baby Dust.

There is no wrong way to Rally Like a Mofo.

This weekend, we hope Rallying for you means coming together virtually to watch some of our 35+ amazing speakers, chatting in our virtual lobby, exploring our exhibitor booths, winning some of our awesome giveaways and celebrating how strong we are as a community.

Each one of you is fucking amazing. We salute you. And we are all in this together.

We hope to #rallylikeamofo with you at the first-ever Rally Live. Get your tickets at link in bio! VIP ticket gets your our Virtual Swag Bag with hundreds of dollars in fertility-friendly discounts and deals. And VIP after party access w our biggest giveaway of the day!

xoxo Ali and Blair

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Oct 20

A HUGE THANK YOU TO OUR PHENOMENAL RALLY LIVE SPONSORS! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

One of the best parts of planning our first-ever Fertility Rally Live has been partnering with some of the coolest and most forward-thinking brands and companies in the infertility and wellness space.

We have had the best time connecting with these brands, brainstorming the best ways to partner together and talking about our shared visions: To make your infertility and wellness experiences better, safer, more comfortable, more effective, more supported and LESS SUCKY than ever before.

As you know, we created the FR membership and Rally Live because these are things we wish we'd had while we were going through our infertility journeys.

And we have hand-picked each and every sponsor because we love what they are doing, and we know that you will too.

Lots of the brands shown here are featured in the VIP Swag bag, which contains HUNDREDS of $$$ in discounts, so if you haven't yet grabbed your ticket, make sure to choose the VIP option, which also gets you into our VIP After Party, where we'll be doing our biggest giveaways of the day!

The event is THIS SAT 10/24! ALL TICKETS, GA or VIP, are $10 off with code RALLYWITHUS.
Join us! Invest in yourself! (Link in bio!)

A huge, heartfelt THANK YOU to all of our amazing partners! We cannot wait to #rallylikeamofo with all of you!

xoxo Ali and Blair

<a class='bp-suggestions-mention' href='https://fertilityrally.com/members/oovalife/' rel='nofollow'>@oovalife</a>
@igenomixusa
@coopergenomics
@altopharmacy
@proovtest
@fertility_ny
@mybinto
@gostorky
@mirafertility
@myvitro
@abcsurrogacy
@hellobestshot
@cryingoutloudto
@premamawellness
@expectful
@incirclefertility
@y7studio
@wearerobyn
@giftoflifeohio
@natalistco
@hormonepuzzlemethod
@sayhelloeden
@anookathletics
@embieapp
@beli.baby
@fertilityinfocus
@fairhaven_health

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Oct 19

To all you Moiras out there who haven’t bought your ticket to Fertility Rally LIVE, there is a promo code you can use to score $10 off your general admission or VIP ticket!

Visit the link in our bio & use code RALLYWITHUS

You don’t want to miss this all day, virtual event celebrating our amazing #ttccommunity - 30+ speakers, 17 breakouts sessions, 2 keynotes, 2 panels, 75+ giveaways, 1 happy hour, and infinite love & support 👯‍♀️ 🎉

#RALLYLIKEAMOFO

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Oct 18

We are less than a week away from our first ever Fertility Rally LIVE - a day long, action packed virtual celebration of our kick ass community 🎉

If you haven’t purchased your ticket, head to the link in our bio & do it now! @fertilityrally

Keynotes, panels, breakout sessions, interaction with other warriors, giveaways, and of course, a happy hour! Come celebrate your strength & leave inspired, educated & empowered knowing you invested in yourself 💪🏽

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Oct 17

Rally LIVE bloopers! We don’t promise perfect, we promise fun!

You guys... Rally LIVE is one week away 🎉

October 24th is about YOU! It’s about celebrating the strength of the #ttccommunity by bringing together some of the biggest voices & brightest minds to inspire, unite & educate 👏🏼

If you haven’t bought your ticket yet, visit the link in our bio & use code RALLYWITHUS for $10 off💰

We promise laughs & plenty of surprises too 😂

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Oct 17

We are a week away from Rally LIVE & we can’t believe it 🤸‍♀️

We couldn’t be more excited by what we have planned! Here is a snapshot of what’s in store 👏🏼

A couple of key reminders:

💰 Use code RALLYWITHUS for $10 off your ticket

📅 You don’t have to attend the day of to watch all the sessions - buy a ticket & gain access to all sessions for 30 days

🛍 VIP tix include a virtual SWAG bag with deals & offers worth $1,000s of dollars

Come RALLY with us! 👯‍♀️ 🎉

We love you all,

Blair & Ali

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Oct 15

Tonight we join the 1,000’s of women & men worldwide who will light a candle from 7:00-8:00 PM in their respective time zones to honor lost children in the #waveoflight2020 🕯💕

Our losses are a big reason behind our WHY.

Why we started our podcasts.

Why we share our stories so openly.

Why we started Fertility Rally.

We strive to offer the support in as many ways possible so that NO ONE feels alone on their journey.

To all of our #ttcsisters who have experienced #miscarriage, #infantloss & grief of any kind on their #ttcjourney, we are here for you & we see you.

We invite you to light your candles knowing there are 1,000’s of others doing the same.

So much love,

Blair & Ali 💕

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Oct 14

What does a VIP ticket to Fertility Rally LIVE get you?!

1) All-day admission on Oct 24th to attend as many sessions as you want (we have sessions going on from 9A - 6P ET) + the ability to watch any & all sessions for 30 days after the event (over ELEVEN hours of content) 👏🏼

2) VIRTUAL SWAG BAG w/ exclusive discounts & offers from the amazing brands featured in this post (we have everything from athletic gear, to online yoga, to supplements, fertility organizational tools, apps, fertility wellness courses & more) 🧘‍♀️ 💊 📖

3) Access to our VIP After Party where we will be gifting our most exciting giveaways of the day 🎉

VIP tickets are $75 —> act fast using code RALLYWITHUS & receive $10 off! The event is less than two weeks away! Link is in our bio @fertilityrally 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️

#RALLYLIKEAMOFO

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Oct 13

We know what you really want to see... CHICK CONTENT 🐥 💕

Meet our mascot, Rally, the Silkie chicken who resides on Nelson Manor (aka Blair’s house) 😂

Ironically enough, Rally is the only full grown female chicken on Nelson Manor who doesn’t lay eggs, so perhaps she is #infertile too 🤷🏼‍♀️

Her favorite food is yogurt & watermelon & she LOVES snuggles. We have a highlights section dedicated to her if you’d like to get to know her a little better!

We hope this brightened your day! One of our goals at Fertility Rally is to mix the light with the heavy always!

XOXO,

Blair, Ali & Rally

#rallylikeamofo #silkiesofinstagram

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Oct 12

Fertility Rally LIVE is a one-day action packed virtual infertility celebration on October 24th featuring 30+ amazing speakers! You will hear from top experts in reproductive medicine, fertility business owners and infertility warriors with the goal of answering our burning fertility treatment questions, giving insight to the different paths to parenthood, sharing wellness tips, emphasizing the power of community, and so much more.
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Rally LIVE is designed for anyone and everyone navigating infertility to build their modern families! Our event is designed so you can customize your own experience based on your interests and where you are at on your #infertilityjourney
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The day is planned in AM & PM blocks, each of which will include a keynote, panel & two breakouts sessions, choose-your-own-adventure style. We will end the day with a kick ass happy hour with a TON of giveaways and surprises! Date doesn’t work?! No prob. Everything will be recorded - all ticket holders will get access to every session after the event!
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Head to the link in our bio to snag your ticket for $10 off using code ‘RALLYWITHUS’! We can’t wait to see you there 🤗

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Oct 12

This morning we announced that some of our members would be taking over our stories this week to share their #miscarriage & #infantloss stories 🎙

These are the brave & beautiful faces you’ll see! They represent all forms of loss, from #chemicalpregnancy (can we please come up with another term plz) to #stillbirth & everything in between 💔

At the Rally, we strive to be a safe place where everyone feels comfortable sharing their struggles. We are so grateful to these amazing women for agreeing to open their hearts to all of you to extend the love we share in our Rally fam so you know you’re not alone 👯‍♀️

Help us raise awareness & blast stigmas for the #1in4 by supporting these amazing ladies & their accounts (all tagged here) 💕

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Oct 12

We put this list together to help anyone struggling. While this week & month get extra attention & awareness which we are so grateful for, the pain never leaves & can sneak up on your when you least expect it.

We hope you will bookmark this post & come back to it when you need a reminder of some of the many amazing resources out there to get you through the hard days.

So thankful for these women & accounts for creating such amazing platforms & resources for #1in4

@miscarriagehopedesk
@lamfampodcast
@drlorashahine
@undefiningmotherhood
@shellymettling
@chaunceyellis
@fertility_canada

We know there are SO many more, so we’d love you to tag all the resources you turn to so those that visit this post can have those too.

So much love to all of you this week, month, and always!

XOXO,

Blair & Ali

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Oct 11

In November 2012, during a trip to Charlotte to celebrate Thanksgiving with my family, I had my first miscarriage. This is a picture of Ever, me and Vince a few days before I got the devastating news. I know now, as do many of you, that miscarriages are common: One in four women have them.

But over the next two years, I had three more—each more devastating than the next. I remember waking up one morning a handful of months after my first miscarriage. I was six or seven weeks pregnant again, and when I wiped after going pee, there was a bright red streak on the toilet paper. My heart stopped. I called my gyno's office in a panic and explained to the nurse what was happening. "You're probably having a miscarriage," she said, in a bored, non-chalant tone that indicated she had said this exact thing to panicky women many, many times before. I pictured her chewing gum and playing Candy Crush on her phone while taking calls from patients. To her this was nothing—just another miscarriage. To me, it was everything. I remember hanging up, sobbing and pounding on the bedroom floor.

As you all well know, when you want a baby and you can’t have a baby, it is the saddest, lowest feeling in the world. I found myself spiraling into depression and fighting with my husband. Every time I saw another pregnant woman, I seethed.

While I feel beyond lucky that we finally had Sonny in 2015, after one round of IVF, I still get choked up when I think about those four losses. In fact, tears are streaming down my face right now. As I've said many times before, infertility never leaves you. It scars your heart and sticks to your bones.

I started @infertileafstories to share these stories and continue to blast stigmas. Blair and I started Fertility Rally as the community we wish we'd had while going through it.

To my fellow #infertilitywarriors and my #sistersinloss, I am so sorry for your losses. Each and every single one of them matters. And I am with you every step of the way.
xoxo

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Oct 10

So thankful to these amazing women for not only agreeing to speak at @fertilityrally LIVE but for speaking out about #infantlossandmiscarriageawareness to blast stigmas for us all.

We invite you to scroll through these quotes and share one that resonates with you. Help us raise awareness for the #1in4 #ttcsisters whose hearts are extra heavy this month.

For more incredible wisdom & inspiration from these 5 women & TWENTY FIVE more, head to the link in our bio to grab your ticket - @fertilityrally 💕

Today is the last day to add a PARTY PACK to your order for just $15! Trust us, you’ll want all the goodies 🎉

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Oct 9

To kick off #infantlossandmiscarriageawareness week, I’m sharing my #miscarriage story w/ you.

All 3 of these PGT-SR normal embryos were a result of #ivf round 1 in June 2018. We actually made 4 normal embryos that round but I was so infuriated when our 4th and final transfer didn’t work, I threw the photo away. #infertility does some pretty fucked up things to spirit.

One of these beautiful embabies snuggled in & after transfer 2 in September 2018, we learned we were pregnant! We saw the heartbeat at 6.5 weeks & celebrated by opening an envelope from our clinic at our anniversary dinner revealing we were having a baby girl 💕

We had a trip to Paris & London planned for our anniversary & birthdays (we celebrate all three within 2 weeks) & off we went as a family of 3! We spent a week in paradise on cloud 9, stopping to look at every little shop that had stuff for baby girls. We even brought home a couple of things for her.

When we showed up for our 7.5 week appointment, we had no idea our world was about to come crashing down. Our doctor couldn’t find a heartbeat & there was a ton of blood clouding the ultrasound, making it very hard to see anything at all. I was sent home to wait it out it hopes the blood would clear & we could get a better read on the situation, but it didn’t look good. An ultrasound a few days later confirmed the worst, she had stopped growing shortly after our 6.5 week appointment.

Our souls were crushed. The next few weeks were a blur. I chose to take medication at home to pass the pregnancy. That was miserable. We were both in a very dark place. It’s not something that will ever leave me. EVER.

In those dark moments, I felt so isolated, angry, sad & confused. I learned the meaning of #1in4. I wasn’t yet sharing about IVF with many people. I started <a class='bp-suggestions-mention' href='https://fertilityrally.com/members/fertility-rally-38/' rel='nofollow'>@fabfertility</a> on a whim in hopes to connect with others going through similar journeys. It was the best decision I’ve made. The love & support I found & continue to find is like no other. I am thankful every day for this amazing #ttccommunity

My miscarriage redefined my purpose in life. My pain is now my purpose. So much love to all of you who have gone through loss. I see you.

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Oct 7

🏃‍♀️ LAST CHANCE 🏃‍♀️

Today is the last day Rally memberships are open until November!

This month is heavy but incredible in the #infertilitycommunity with it being #infantloassawarenessmonth - finding your people, taking care of yourself, and finding the support you need is more important than ever before.

We got you and we are here for you every step of the way, providing:

~ weekly virtual support groups
~ 24/7 searchable community
~ submit a special date & receive extra ❤️
~ monthly niche virtual events
~ exclusive discounts on fertility products
~ video library
~ exclusive merch
~ wellness meditations & more
~ downloadable guides
~ Cool Shit of the Week feature
~ bonus podcast
~ blog covering a wide array of topics

If you have any questions at all, please send us a DM! We want to welcome you with open arms 🤗

So much love,

Blair & Ali

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Oct 5

Happy Monday Rally fam! We are SO pumped to kick off Rally LIVE on October 24th with a keynote from the amazing @annavictoria 💕

Anna is a fitness icon & entrepreneur who founded the @fitbodyapp 🏋️‍♀️

She is a new #IVF mama & will join us to dish all about body image & hormones, the physical restrictions going through treatments, the difficulties of balancing a career & IVF, & much more!

Tickets are on sale now! For $40, get access to the entire day of virtual programming & the happy hour at the end the day. For $75, get all that PLUS a virtual SWAG bag packed full of fertility-related discounts & codes from brands we know & love as well as admission to our VIP after party 🎉

No matter what ticket you hold, you’ll have access to all the sessions for 30 days after the event!

Link in bio to snag your ticket @fertilityrally

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Oct 4

👏🏼 Sharing a behind the scenes look into our membership site...

Membership is open for THREE MORE DAYS! Here is a snapshot of some of our member site features, content & perks:

Swipe left once and you’ll see a screen shot of our RALLY FEED where members come to connect, vent, ask advice & share news about their latest treatments👯‍♀️

Swipe left twice and find our infamous CSOTW (Cool Shit of the Week) where we provide a list & links to our fave things. Could be fertility-related, could be seasonal, could be completely random. This week: 6 fertility-related recipes featuring our very own member @nutritionbytara, @pcosnutrition, contributing guest blogger @ketowithsarah, @natalieparamore, @thefertilitykitchen, & Rally LIVE speaker @kela_healthcoach 🥘

Swipe left three times for a quick video of our PERKS section. We have partnered with brands like <a class='bp-suggestions-mention' href='https://fertilityrally.com/members/oovalife/' rel='nofollow'>@oovalife</a>, @mybinto, @myvitro, @beli.baby, @get_rael, @incirclefertility, @naowellness & @natalistco to bring our members exclusive discounts on fertility essentials & services 💰

This is just the tip of the iceberg! We didn’t even get into the weekly support groups, wellness section, bonus podcast eps, blog, video library, member groups, & more!

Link in bio to join! We can’t wait to grow this Rally fam 💕 @fertilityrally

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Oct 1

OMG Rally fam - thank you for helping us reach 5K on the gram! You know we have to celebrate 🎉

Rally Memberships opened this morning & as you know Rally LIVE tix for Oct 24th are on sale and for 48 HOURS ONLY, we are offering $5 off BOTH when you use the code 5OFF5K - visit the link in our bio for links to join & buy tix!!! @fertilityrally

Also, we will be doing a 5K GIVEAWAY! Head to our stories and drop your email to enter to win a Rally LIVE VIP ticket ($75 value) or one of our many fun fertility-related prizes pictured in our stories 💕

Thank you again! We are nothing without you. We are the Worst Club w/ the Best Members - join us! 🍾 💞

Members - check the Rally Feed For your special code 😘

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Sep 30

A dear friend of Fertility Rally, Dr. Trolice (@myfertilitycare) so perfectly put into words how it feels going through #infertility - being on the outside looking in.

We can’t help but to think of Kevin McCallister walking down the street in Home Alone looking at all the families opening presents and sharing dinner while he is all alone.

Infertility doesn’t leave you either. If you do come out on the other side (whatever that looks like for you), you’ll never forget this isolating feeling.

That’s what makes this community so freaking amazing! We get it. We’ve been there or are there. We are here to RALLY behind you, to press our faces up against that glass window and lace our fingers in the chain link fence to look into the playground WITH YOU and scream #infertilitysucks

Our Rally fam has your back! Guess what?! Memberships open TOMORROW for one week only. Visit the link in our bio to jump on the waiting list to be the first notified when they open and to (hint) get a special offer! @fertilityrally

#RALLYLIKEAMOFO

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Sep 29

LET THAT SHIT GO.

This is your daily reminder to breathe. To laugh. To take a step back for a hot second. To remember that everything is ok—and you are ok—in this very moment.

#Infertility can cause you to be laser-focused and unrelenting in your pursuit of having a baby. It becomes an obsession. You strap into that roller coaster, looking only at the "goal" at the end of the ride--and you forget about everything else that's happening around you.

ALL THAT MATTERS IS HAVING A BABY.

And this is nothing to be ashamed of--we have all been there. But sometimes, being so focused on one thing is not entirely healthy.

This is a friendly reminder that if you can take the bath, or take the walk, or watch the trashy TV show to get your mind off things, or look down at your feet and think, "I am here, and I am ok," — it just might help.

In our Stories today, we are so excited to announce one of our 16 Fertility Rally LIVE Breakout Sessions, which is called, simply, "Let That Shit Go." Led by Rebekah Rosler (@itsconceivablebyrebekahrosler) and Lisa White (@ivf.manifesting.a.miracle), this session is going to help you deal with the stress and anxiety of infertility—and help you recalibrate, refocus, and readjust your mindset into one of positivity and love.

LET.
THAT.
SHIT.
GO.

Link in bio to get your Rally tix, which are going fast! @fertilityrally

We've got 30+ speakers and more than 11 hours (!!) of programming. All attendees will get a link to the ENTIRE event after the fact, so even if you can't make it live, or you choose 4 breakout sessions the day of the event but want to watch the other 12 later, you can do that. It's all for you.

And don't forget your Rally Party Pack, which includes some custom Rally Swag meant for Letting Shit Go.
XOXO

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Sep 28

As #pcosawarenessmonth comes to a close, we are dispelling some of the most popular #pcos myths. We invite you to share one of these myths to your story today to help being awareness to this condition that impacts so many of our #ttcsisters

We also want to remind you of our PCOS event tonight at 8PM ET w/ special guests @sashahakmanmd, @myfertilitycare, and @shaynamahoneyxo! Each guest will share their experience and expertise with PCOS and then answer a ton of questions we have collected in advance and from those in attendance. Tickets are $4.99 for non-members - link in bio @fertilityrally

Ok, now let’s discuss these myths:

Myth #1: You Did Something to Cause It

While the exact cause of PCOS is unknown, you are not to blame. Several factors -- including genetics -- are widely believed to play a role.

Myth #2: If You Lose Weight, You Can Get Rid of PCOS

While overweight and obese women can help balance their hormone levels by losing weight through lifestyle changes like healthy eating and regular exercise which improve the way your body uses insulin and, therefore, regulates your hormone levels, unfortunately, there is no cure for PCOS.

Myth #3: PCOS is a Rare Condition

It is estimated that between 5-10% of U.S. women of childbearing age have PCOS. That’s about 5 million women, which makes the condition one of the most common hormonal endocrine disorders among women of reproductive age.

Myth #4: You Can't Get Pregnant if You Have PCOS

A number of medications can stimulate ovulation, which is the main issue that women with PCOS face. ART is also an amazing option. PCOS absolutely does not prevent pregnancy.

Myth #5: PCOS Only Affects Overweight Women

It is true that many women who have PCOS are overweight or obese. And it's also true that obesity can make PCOS symptoms worse. However, PCOS does not discriminate and can affect women of all shapes and sizes.

Resource for this post: pennmedicine.org

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Sep 26

Amanda Rice is 💪🏽 as hell! Not only has she been diagnosed with and beat cancer THREE times, she used over a decade of experience raising money to help get @chickmission off the ground.

The Chick Mission idea "hatched" when Amanda's fertility preservation coverage was denied by her insurance company. Staring down a long road of chemo, radiation and long-term drug therapy, Amanda understood the high likelihood of #infertility after her treatment and decided to move forward covering the costs on her own. The idea of other patients choosing not to pursue preservation simply because of the cost barrier did not sit well - socioeconomic standing should not dictate whether anyone has an opportunity to have biological children after they battle and beat cancer.

She thought, “Wouldn’t it be incredible if every single young female cancer patient had the option to preserve her fertility ahead of lifesaving treatment?”

We are THRILLED to have Amanda lead a breakout session at Fertility Rally LIVE to discuss egg freezing and her story!

Rally LIVE is officially 1 month from today 🎉

Get your ticket in the link in our bio @fertilityrally

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Sep 26

Guess what this means?!

YOU are strong.

YOU are determined.

YOU are resilient.

YOU are brave.

YOU are passionate.

This #ttccommunity is amazing and the fact that you’re part of if means you are amazing. Just a Friday reminder in case you needed it!

At @fertilityrally LIVE we will have a breakout session entitled “The Power of Community on Your Infertility Journey” co-led by two powerhouse advocates who have started their own companies in the name of blasting stigmas, raising awareness and saying 🖕🏼to isolation! Check out our stories for the announcement of one of these leaders 🎉

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Sep 24

How much do we love Rebekah Rosler @itsconceivablebyrebekahrosler? So. Damn. Much.
She is a mama of three with her own unique infertility journey.
She is a master connector who knows everyone and wants to help everyone.
She is speaking at RALLY LIVE, in a breakout sesh we’ve dubbed “Let That Shit Go,” — because she is also realAF and adds humor and authenticity to this sucky journey whenever possible. Alongside the amazing @ivf.manifesting.a.miracle, they are going to help all of you keep things in perspective, reduce stress and not let infertility rule your world.
We cannot effing wait!
Event is 10/24 and tickets are available at link in our bio! You can sign up for all of your breakout sessions in advance!
#rallylikeamofo

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Sep 24

In tonight’s Rally Together Support Group, we were joined by Abbe & Sophie, the co-founders of @incirclefertility

We centered our discussion around reevaluation when going through #infertility - reevaluating your clinic, your treatment plan, your boundaries and your friendships.

As Sophie explained (paraphrasing here), “We can all hope we come out on the other side in one piece and not having left a path of relationship destruction in our wake.”

It is inevitable that some friendships will be forever changed on your #infertilityjourney for many reasons and you have to be ok with letting them burn if they need to! aka Friendship Ashes

You come first. Set your boundaries. Don’t apologize. Weed out the people in your life who do not fully support you.

Drop a 💪🏽 if you agree!

Thanks Abbe & Sophie - we love you dearly! Friends, if you are interested in one on one coaching with @incirclefertility and are not yet a Rally member, they are offering an annual Rally membership to you in one of their coaching packages 🎉

Rally mems, check out the Perks page on the membership site for your special discount to @incirclefertility 💕

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Sep 22

This is an oldie but a goodie. Me on April 1, 2015—the day of my very first (and only) FET. My face was saying, “Holy Shit, I’m Scared Shitless.” My heart was saying, “Please, God, let this work after four miscarriages and three years of secondary infertility hell. This is our Hail Mary.”

It took Vince and I a long time to agree to do IVF. We never thought it was in the cards for us. I was laser focused on baby number two because I loved being a mommy to our then-five-year-old SO much. He would’ve loved to have another child, but he didn’t have the same relentless desire that I had. If it didn’t work, we were closing the chapter on another baby — and we would’ve been happy as a family of three.

But lo and behold, it did.

I tell this story because I know how incredibly lucky we were, and because I want to give hope to anyone out there who might be feeling like it’ll never happen for them. Instead of thinking, “What if it doesn’t happen?” — how about, “What if it does?”

Who can relate to being Scared Shitless in a Gown? Let us know below.💙

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Sep 21

It’s #pcosawarenessmonth & we are super excited to bring the #ttccommunity an opportunity to learn more about #PCOS from the patient & physician perspective.

We have lined up three rockstar guests to dish all the deets.

@sashahakmanmd is a US board certified OBGYN with subspecialty training in reproductive endocrinology & infertility who specializes in women's health, hormones, infertility and reproductive/pelvic surgery. As a fertility doctor but and someone who suffers from PCOS, she aims to provide resources to help you reach your lifestyle goals and prevent you from falling into traps of misinformation present all over the internet.

@myfertilitycare (Dr. Trolice) is a RE based in Florida who is extremely passionate about educating patients on all aspect of #infertility challenges any chance he gets. Having gone through multiple years of infertility with his wife, his level of empathy towards patients is something to be treasured.

@shaynamahoneyxo is a Holistic Fertility Coach who got started in her work as a result of her own struggles #ttc - she suffered from PCOS for many years before taking matters into her own hands to determine certain lifestyle factors that led her symptoms at bay. She is extremely passionate about looking at things through a holistic lens when working with her clients.

This event will be an hour-long conversation where each guest shares their knowledge surrounding PCOS with plenty of time for Q & A at the end.

Members, this event is free for you - simply RSVP on the site! For non-members, head to the link in our bio to snag a ticket for just $4.99! If you can’t make it to the actual event, the recording will be emailed to all participants the very next day!

Knowledge is power! We can’t wait to RALLY with you and

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Sep 20

WE ARE SO THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE OUR FERTILITY RALLY LIVE AFTERNOON KEYNOTE SPEAKER, THE INCREDIBLE SAMANTHA BUSCH!

Samantha is a huge and important voice in this community, sharing her own story about IVF and pursuing surrogacy and founding the Bundle of Joy Fund with her husband, NASCAR star @rowdybusch, which advocates for fertility education and grants monetary awards to couples who require fertility treatments to have their own bundle of joy.

Her memoir, "Fighting Infertility," which tells her whole story—including all of the lessons she's learned along the way—comes out soon. 👏🏽

On a personal note, we LOVE Samantha, who has appeared on both of our podcasts and become a dear friend. She is kind, fun, generous and hilarious. She is going to give an amazing talk! Do not miss it💥💥💥
Link in our bio to snag tickets now🎉🎉🎉
#rallylikeamofo

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Sep 19

Yesterday, we lost one of the greats. We read this morning that she fought for reproductive rights over the phone from her hospital bed. What a legend!

She left big shoes to fill and will be an inspiration to us all for centuries to come! And she’s right - women belong in all places where decisions are being made.

Fertility coverage decisions in the workplace are no exception. As women, we have the responsibility to fight for coverage for ourselves and for the women who will come after us.

We are so excited to be offering a breakout session at Fertility Rally LIVE to give you the tools to do just that. Join Amanda Rush, Senior Manager for Coverage at Work at @resolveorg for a discussion on what you can do to advocate in the workplace. We all want to make this happen, but we don’t know how. Well, now we will!

Tickets to the Rally are on sale now! Link in bio @fertilityrally

Let’s channel our inner RBG and make some shit happen 👊🏼💕💪🏽

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Sep 18

🎉 R A L L Y ~ P A N E L I S T 🎉

We could not be more excited to announce that the amazing @nataliecrawfordmd will be speaking on one of Fertility Rally LIVE panels titled, “WHO RUN THE WORLD: Superstar Female REs.”

Dr. Crawford is a compassionate, intelligent, empathetic, genuine, and loving voice in the #infertility space. She is a trailblazer for her peers who has embraced social media as a tool to help patients and make physicians more approachable. Her influence reaches beyond the field of infertility where she challenges women to be unapologetic about living the life they want by constantly asking themselves the questions, “What is my goal? And what can I do to get there?”

She is the host of @asawomanpodcast 🎙

She is an entrepreneur - she recently co-founded @forafertility 💙

She is a wife & mother (see the last pic) 🧡🤘🏼

She is #1in4 - having experienced #miscarriage (multiple) and an #ectopicpregnancy trying to build her family, she is able to bring an unmatched level of empathy to her patients struggling.

You will not want to miss her insight, expertise and advice on emerging #IVF trends, your fertility and how to best set yourself up for success while #ttc during this panel discussion.

Only 6 EARLY BIRD tickets left! Link is in our bio to snag yours now @fertilityrally 💕

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Sep 17

Fertility Rally LIVE offish merch is here 🎉

A huge shoutout to our Merch Sponsor @fertility_ny 💜

We have a options for any temp - crewneck sweatshirt, long sleeve tee (@comfort_colors of course), & tees! Mugs & totes too! Tons of colors and sizes to choose from.

We personally ordered it all (duh) and cant wait to get cozy in it 👏🏼

Head to the link in our bio to grab yours! @fertilityrally

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Sep 16

Did you know we (Blair & Ali) co-host & record bonus podcast episodes for Fertility Rally?!

Our latest episode that dropped today on our Fertility Rally website is an interview w/ @gostorky founder, Eran Amir. GoStork is an incredible (and relatively new) database where you can find, compare, and connect with #eggdonors, #surrogacy agencies and/or #IVF clinics for FREE!

Eran got the idea for GoStork after embarking on his own #surrogacyjourney. He worked with our amazing Rally partner @circlesurrogacy, an egg donor agency and an IVF clinic that eventually brought him and his husband their beautiful daughter, Ariel! He has been there. Overwhelmed with info, options, and numbers. He used his experience with the process and his background in tech to create this amazing platform!

Head over to fertilityrally.com > RESOURCES > BONUS PODCASTS EPS to hear the full story of how he built the business, his journey to Ariel AND a very exciting announcement on what’s next 💕

We want to give our friends at @circlesurrogacy a HUGE shout out! Eran raves about them in the episode and we couldn’t agree with his sentiments more. Circle is a full service agency that makes this incredibly difficult process a little more approachable. Please give them a follow, check out their website and read their latest blog post that just so happens to feature Eran!

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Sep 15

🎉 Rally LIVE EARLY BIRD tix are here 🎉

Fertility Rally LIVE is a one-day action packed virtual infertility celebration on October 24th featuring 30+ amazing speakers! You will hear from top experts in reproductive medicine, fertility business owners and infertility warriors with the goal of answering our burning fertility treatment questions, giving insight to the different paths to parenthood, sharing wellness tips, emphasizing the power of community, and so much more.

Rally LIVE is designed for anyone and everyone navigating infertility to build their modern families! Our event is designed so you can customize your own experience based on your interests and where you are at on your #infertilityjourney

The day is planned in AM & PM blocks, each of which will include a keynote, panel & two breakouts sessions, choose-your-own-adventure style. We will end the day with a kick ass happy hour with a TON of giveaways and surprises! Date doesn’t work?! No prob. Everything will be recorded - all ticket holders will get access to every session after the event!

Head to the link in our bio to snag your ticket at our EARLY BIRD price of just $35 for a limited time only! While you’re at it, check out our Rally Party Pack add on to level up your Happy Hour experience (limited availability)!

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Sep 14

Is it just us or can they never remember? Or do they never fully listen in the first place?! 🤔 🤦🏼‍♀️

Hey, props to them for asking, but hormones = impatience, are we right?!

Tips:

Create a shared Google calendar for appointments, test results and milestone dates.

Post your medication calendar on your bathroom mirror for both of you to see.

Get your partner involved by having them administer shots!

If you’re in the middle of any protocol this week, stay strong! You got this 🤜🏼🤛🏽

#RALLYLIKEAMOFO

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Sep 13

This 😭 We cannot scream from the rooftops enough how much we love our members. Our mission is to create a safe place for them to learn from experts in the field and other #infertilitywarriors, be heard, connect with others in the same boat, and come share their hearts every single day!

To get in on this massive virtual group hug:

1) SAVE THE DATE: Tix to Fertility Rally LIVE, our day-long, action packed infertility virtual celebration being held Oct 24th go on sale TUES 9/15!!!

2) JOIN OUR MEMBERSHIP WAITLIST: follow the link in our bio to sign up to be notified the second we open back up 🎉

We can’t wait to Rally with you!

Xoxo, Blair & Ali 💕

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Sep 12

First family photo! Does anyone else drive the struggle bus trying to get their partner on board to take pics?! 🚌 😂 🙋🏼‍♀️

A HUGE thank you to the Rally Fam for all the prayers, congrats, good vibes, DMs, emails, gifts, cards - holy shit y’all are awesome!

I almost burst into tears at our Rally Together Support Group the day of our beta because the FIRST thing any of the members that came did was say congrats when that support group is for THEM. The selflessness and love that we share in our community is something I’ll never cease to be amazed by!

Will and I are still on a high and trying to hold on to this joy. Like we always say in our support groups - there is power in a positive mindset!

I love you all! If you have any questions about my journey or my latest transfer, ask in comments below. Y’all know I’m an open book!

Also, if you aren’t a member yet and want to get in on all the love and support I’m talking about, sign up for the waitlist to be the first to know when membership opens back up on October! Link in bio @fertilityrally 💕

So much love,

Blair

#RALLYLIKEAMOFO

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Sep 9

It is #nationalsurrogacyday & we are here for every second of it!

Through our two podcasts (@infertileafstories and <a class='bp-suggestions-mention' href='https://fertilityrally.com/members/fertility-rally-38/' rel='nofollow'>@fabfertility</a>) and Rally events, we have gotten to know and have been introduced to so many amazing women and men who have become parents through the gift of #surrogacy and to agencies who are making it possible.

This post only scratches the surface of this incredible, selfless and complicated world, but we hope it introduces you to accounts you don’t yet follow!

From top left to right:

@thedailydan_
@journeytothree_ivf
@andreainny
@flybravely
@carried.with.love
@ourmisconception
@twodads.u.k
@jaclynmisch

Rally members, be sure to check out our “Building Modern Families When You’re LGBTQ” & “Super Surrogacy” events in Rally on Demand to learn more about some of the amazing people behind these accounts and the surrogacy process!

Finally, we want to highlight our amazing friends and partners over at @circlesurrogacy - a full service agency that works with intended parents worldwide and surrogates within the U.S. Please give them a follow and reach out with any and all questions. Their team is truly amazing!

To all the families that were built through surrogacy, we celebrate your beautiful journey today! All our love!

Xoxo, Ali & Blair

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Sep 8

🎉 WE ARE SO INSANELY EXCITED TO WELCOME THE 75 (!!) NEW MEMBERS WHO JOINED OUR RALLY FAM THIS MONTH 🎉

We can't wait to get to know you all better—and we are thrilled for you to see firsthand what we've been talking about when we say it's the Worst Club with the Best Members. Our Weds Night Support Group, tons of content and videos, special member perks, a Rally Feed that covers everything, 24/7 community — AND a special announcement happening this week about FERTILITY RALLY LIVE! (Hint: Save the Date for October 24th.)

To see the names of our newbies, head to our Stories.... and ICYMI this time, don't worry—we'll be open again on October 1. Sign up for the waitlist to be the first to be notified when it opens back up! Link in bio @fertilityrally

#rallylikeamofo
xoxo Ali and Blair 💕

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Sep 7

Hey #infertilitywarrior aka Wonder Women - yes YOU!

In case you forgot how fucking strong & special you are, we are here to remind you 🦸‍♀️ 💪🏽

Fertility Rally is here for you on your best and worst days. Our community is accessible 24/7. There are more resources than you can imagine. Our weekly Rally Together Support Group is LIT 🔥

The Rally fam is made up of women at every point in the journey - just starting out to multiple cycles deep. From Washington, to Texas, to New York, to Canada, to Mauritius, to New Zealand!

The Rally is a SAFE place where you can come as you are with no judgement and truly feel loved and understood by fellow #ttcsisters 👯‍♀️

Today is the LAST day to join until October 1st! COME ON! Rally with us 🎉 💕

Link in bio @fertilityrally

#RALLYLIKEAMOFO

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Sep 7

Our members LOVE each other! And we love that more than anything.

Sure we do the work to bring everyone together, but the true magic is the love and support our members show one another!

We are nothing without the beautiful women that make up Fertility Rally! We are so happy our fam is growing - nearly FORTY new ladies just this week 🎉

Tomorrow is the last day our membership will be open this month - come be a part of the magic that makes the Rally special!

Link in bio @fertilityrally 💕

#RALLYLIKEAMOFO

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Sep 4

Hey babes! Happy FriYAY 🎉

Dropping in to remind you guys no matter where you are in your journey or how you’re going about it, you can always make the choice to #rallylikeamofo

What does this mean?! It means to feel your feelings. Speak your truth. Don’t apologize. Advocate for yourself. Ask for help. Celebrate the small wins. Manifest positivity. Cry it out. Be kind to yourself. Be empathetic towards others. Always know you aren’t alone!

If you’re looking for a safe place to #rallylikeamofo- JOIN OUR RALLY FAM! We are 200+ strong and have so much love and support to share with all of you!

Membership is open until September 7th! Link in bio to join @fertilityrally 💕 👯‍♀️

We’d love to have you! Xoxo Blair & Ali

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Sep 3

an amazing new member put this comment in the chat of last night’s support group, our hearts exploded!

This is what the Rally is all about. Coming together in a safe place with our hearts on our sleeves to be embraced my others who see you!

Last night’s group was nothing short of amazing where our guest leader, @noashaw26 reminded us that the best three words we can ever say are, “PLEASE HELP ME!”

That’s what we are here for. To help you. To hear you. To see you!

Memberships are open for 4 more days! Come Rally with us to join the 200+ women who are supporting each other every day and learning what what means to #rallylikeamofo

Link in bio @fertilityrally 💕 💪🏽

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Sep 2

Highlighting some of our members in their Rally merch today! As we always say, we are the Worst Club w/ the Best Members.

Despite the wild ride we are all on, we have fun! We RALLY together to celebrate the wins and mourn the losses and heartbreak.

We remind each other that there are rainbows 🌈 after the storms ⛈ and that despite it all, like these bracelets say, we can #RALLYLIKEAMOFO 💕 👯‍♀️

Our membership is open for only FIVE more days before we close until October. This month we have 4 virtual support groups, a happy hour, and more new content than you can handle!

Follow the link in our bio to check out the monthly and yearly options! @fertilityrally

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Sep 1

Heyyyy youuu guyyyssssss!!!

Rally membership is officially open Sept 1 - Sept 7th! We can’t wait to continue to grow our fam 💕

We already have 10 new members & counting! We have monthly, annual and giftable options available!

Membership gives you access to weekly virtual support groups led by us (Blair & Ali) and various guests in the infertility space, all other virtual events (such as All Things IVF), our 24/7 community full of women who fucking get it, our curated blog/video content, all past recorded events, exclusive member merch and (HINT) a discount to the Rally LIVE that we will be announcing v. soon!

Self care is so important on your #infertilityjourney - Invest in your mental health by giving yourself the gift of community and all the support you can handle!!! We truly are the Worst Club with the Best Members and there is room for ALL of us!

Link in bio @fertilityrally 💕 🍾 👯‍♀️

#RALLYLIKEAMOFO

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Aug 31

👑HAPPY TRANSFER DAY, BLAIR!👑
EVERYONE is rooting for you!
Guys, #rallylikeamofo around our girl and send her some love in the comments! #positivevibes

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Aug 29

Our membership opens back up September 1st for one week only! We can’t wait to add to the Rally fam. If you’ve been wanting to join or know someone who wants to join, please share - now is the time! Sign up for the waitlist to be notified when memberships go live- link in bio @fertilityrally 🍾

Speaking of growing our fam, 4,000 FOLLOWERS! OMFG - thank you so much for joining us for our wild ride!

We have SO many exciting things on the horizon! In addition to opening our membership up next week, we are hosting a SUPER SURROGACY EVENT Monday, August 31st @ 8:00 PM ET. We will be bringing awareness from all angles - intended parent, surrogate & agency. If you aren’t a member, snag a ticket for $7.99 on our website!

We also have some HUGE news coming your way about Fertility Rally LIVE very soon! We are so excited we can hardly stand it! HINT: Members will def have some Rally LIVE perks! Stay tuned and don’t forget to #RALLYLIKEAMOFO 🎉

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Aug 28

On Fridays, we highlight celebrities that have struggled with #infertility. Usually, these celebs are the “traditional” type - actors, singers, authors, etc.

But today, we are highlighting Ariel of @carried.with.love - a true celebrity in our eyes. Ariel is a THREE-TIME surrogate, mother to her own biological daughter, and step mom to two other beautiful girls. Ariel, your selflessness and genuine love for helping others grow their families is something we deeply admire! 💕

We are so excited that she agreed to be a part of our SUPER SURROGACY EVENT this coming Monday, August 31st @ 8PM ET, to share her perspective alongside intended parent, @paularallis & a representative from @circlesurrogacy.

If you are curious about surrogacy or considering this path to parenthood, you can’t miss this rare opportunity to hear about the process from every angle. Tickets are only $7.99! For Rally members, attending is free. If you can’t tune in for the actual event - no worries - buy a ticket and you’ll receive a copy of the recorded event! Link in bio @fertilityrally

#infertilitysucks #ttccommunity #fertility #infertilityawareness #ttcsisters #surrogacy #ttc #surrogacyawareness #infertilityjourney #fertilityjourney #intendedparent #rallylikeamofo

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Aug 27

Wednesday nights are our favorite. We get to spend time with our members & introduce them to kick ass women in the #infertility space who have dedicated their lives to making infertility suck less.

Last night was no exception... we were joined by @monicabivas - IVF Coach & author of The IVF Planner (pictured in the second photo)!

One of the many lessons she shared was LETTING YOUR SHIT OUT. No one wants to end up covered in shit, right?! So feel your anger, your sadness & your frustrations. Scream into a pillow (or into @squishmallows, @jpsbivfjourney), cry in the shower, cuss in the car. Let it out babe!

We will be opening our membership back up very soon! To get in on the action, join our waiting list by visiting fertilityrally.com/join-now/

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Aug 26

✨ SUPER SURROGACY EVENT ✨

MONDAY, AUGUST 31ST @ 8:00 PM ET

We are so excited to announce our next virtual event, covering surrogacy from EVERY point of view - intended parent, surrogate, & agency.

INTENDED PARENT: Designer, shop owner, real estate investor, private pilot, freelance journalist and mother, @PaulaRallis, will share her journey to her baby girl using a surrogate.

SURROGATE: Ariel Taylor (@carried.with.love) has carried for two families of intended parents and recently became pregnant with the sibling for one of the them! She will share her experiences and what it’s like to be on the carrying side of this journey.

AGENCY: Jen Rachman works as a Patient Outreach Associate for one of the largest surrogacy agencies in the United States, @CircleSurrogacy. Jen will share more about the process overall and how Circle works to find the perfect match b/t IPs and carriers.

The surrogacy process is complex and emotional for everyone involved. We are looking forward to breaking down the process and hearing how each of the parties involved feel along the way. Surrogacy is a beautiful gift. Whether you’re considering this on your #fertilityjourney or just interested in the process, you will not want to miss this rare opportunity to hear from every perspective!

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE A RALLY MEMBER TO ATTEND! Tickets are $7.99 and the recording of the event will be available after the fact! So even if the date and time don’t work, go ahead and get a ticket so you have access to the recording. As always, our events are free for Rally members. Link in bio sign up! @fertilityrally

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Aug 25

The RALLY FEED is one of our fave features on the member site. It’s a place where our members can go share good news, scream type about shitty results, ask questions, or share advice. It’s called the RALLY FEED bc no matter what you say, you are met with hundreds of women rallying behind you.

We are always checking in on it to see what peeps are saying, to send reminders about fun things coming up, or to vent ourselves!

We came across this comment last night and OMG did it make us happy 😭 💕

Our membership is currently closed while we work hard to build more content & build programming for FERTILITY RALLY LIVE (more deets coming soon). We will open the membership again VERY soon. Make sure to get on the list by signing up in the link in our bio to be the first notified when we open 👏🏼 👯‍♀️

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Aug 24

If you know, you know! 🌋

Virtual high five to any of our #ttcsisters rockin’ panty liners & “back of the drawer” panties this week... you got this 💪🏽

**PS: we know our member @memyselfmillie will especially love this**

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Aug 22

Happy #nationalrainbowbabyday 🌈 Today we celebrate storms and rainbows. The storms that have brought so many rainbow babies to so many families and the storms so many are still weathering to find theirs.

For those who have their 🌈s, hold on extra tight today! For those in waiting, hold extra hope today. We are so grateful to our friends over at @whatthefertility who created this day and to @resolveorg for raising awareness about observing it within our community. The struggle of #infertility can be a beautiful thing - especially when there is a #rainbowbaby on the other side!

Sending so much much to this incredible #ttccommunity today and always!

#rallylikeamofo

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Aug 21

You are all uncommon & that makes you beautiful! We love celebrating the unique women in our community & the unique journeys they are on to build their families! Thank you @paularallis for saying this so perfectly!

YOU GUYS... be on the lookout in the next few days for an announcement about our next BIG virtual event. It just might include this amazing woman 😉 💕

#rallylikeamofo 💪🏽

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Aug 20

And the WINNING design for our Rally 2020 tee is.... 🥁

“Dear Infertility, You CAN’T Sit w/ Us!”

This idea was submitted by our amazing member Monique (@infertilityandmepodcast) after being inspired by a comment from @femme.fertility when she asked the question on her account, “What would you say to infertility if you were face-to-face?”

We LOVED this idea bc we focus a lot on not letting #infertility define us in our Rally Together Support Groups. We encourage members (and ourselves) to reclaim who we were before the reality of this disease set in. It’s a part of our life, not our entire life. While it can be all consuming at times and will always be in the room, it doesn’t deserve a seat at the head table!

This tee is now on sale in our merch store and is available in seven different colors! Link in our bio to snag this kick ass 2020 #rallylikeamofo tee! @fertilityrally

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Aug 19

Hey hey! ☀️
Since we have a lot of new friends here, I wanted to say hi and reintroduce myself. I'm Ali, one of the co-founders of Fertility Rally—and host of the podcast Infertile AF @infertileafstories. I had my daughter, Ever, in 2009, and then I went through secondary infertility hell trying to have our next baby. Those 3+ years included 4 devastating miscarriages, depression, marriage problems, money issues, guilt, failed IUIs, low self-esteem and 4 gazillion tears.
I didn't have a community to lean on. Yes, I had amazing friends and family, but they weren't IN IT like I was.
I felt lost, alone and so, so sad.
I never thought I would be someone who had to go through IVF. I was SO CLUELESS about my own body, and about fertility—and infertility—in general.
I'd spent years trying NOT to get pregnant, having been taught that if you do it unprotected one time, you'd get knocked up. (Sidenote: One of my other goals is to change the sex education we are teaching our young people.)
Nearing the end of our rope, my husband, Vince, and I agreed to do one round of IVF. If it didn't work, we would move on as a family of 3. His parents and my parents helped us with the money, since none of it was covered.
We got lucky. Our ONE healthy PGD tested frozen embryo was transferred on April 1, 2015, and on December 11, we had our baby boy, Sonny.
In 2019, I launched my podcast and my IG because I wanted to blast stigmas and share stories of anyone going through infertility or building their modern families in a non-traditional way. In 2020, Blair <a class='bp-suggestions-mention' href='https://fertilityrally.com/members/fertility-rally-38/' rel='nofollow'>@fabfertility</a> and I founded Fertility Rally to celebrate and support this amazing community and put everything—people, content and yes, fun—under one roof.
It's the place I wish I had when I was going through it.
It's the Worst Club with the Best Members.
Now that I'm "on the other side" (not a big fan of that term), I’m here for anyone who needs support. I've been there. It sucks. And I'm here to tell you that you are not alone. So that's me in a nutshell. Say hey and tell us about yourself below. ❤️

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Aug 18

Just coming off an incredible (and our first-ever!) Member Celebration Week, we are so in love with the #ttcwarriors who have chosen to take a chance on Fertility Rally and trust us with their stories and their hearts.

As we all know, this can be a lonelyAF journey.
We are so happy to hear from members—like Sarah—who see The Rally as a place that is safe and welcoming (and fun!).

We work hard every day to make everyone feel less alone.
Everyone is welcome at The Rally. Join us to see what it’s all about! Our insane discount on annual memberships is only running for a few more hours!!! Link in bio @fertilityrally

Tag someone below who has made you feel less alone.
Xoxo Ali and Blair

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Aug 16

IT’S THE FINAL DAY OF MEMBER CELEBRATION WEEK 🎉

SURPRISE! We are ending with a bang... a 48-HR MEMBERSHIP FLASH SALE PLUS ONE ANNUAL MEMBERSHIP GIVEAWAY! 💥

We've had such an incredible week spoiling our members with giveaways, parties & fun events! Now it’s time to grow our Rally fam with a 48-hour Flash Sale on our annual membership. Join the entire year for just $149 (normally $199)! We are donating a portion of our Flash Sale proceeds to Baby Quest Foundation, which gives grants to intended parents❤️

Also, we are giving away ONE FREE ANNUAL MEMBERSHIP (a $199 value)!

Members, we'll send you $10 for each person you refer as a Rally member until 10pmET tonight.

To enter to win the FREE ANNUAL MEMBERSHIP:

- like this post & follow @fertilityrally, @infertileafstories & @fabfertilty
- tag 3 #ttcsisters in comments who you want to Rally with 24/7

Winner will be chosen tonight at 10:00 PM ET!

WORST CLUB. BEST MEMBERS. Join us! Link in bio @fertilityrally 👯‍♀️ 💕

XOXO Ali & Blair

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Aug 15

Today’s the day! 🥂

Member Celebration Week is still kickin’ & today at NOON ET, we are hosting our PJ & S’PRIZE PARTY for you and your #TTC besties! Members, RSVP & we’ll send you a link you can FW to a friend or fam member so they can come see what the Rally is all about. As a reminder, we’ll send you $10 for anyone you refer as a Rally member this weekend! 💰 💕

You CAN sit with us!

And, DUH, you can expect games, THE MOST amazing giveaway yet, and a special offer for your friends at the end of the call!

See ya soon 💕 #rallylikeamofo

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Aug 14

TGIFF!

Member Celebration Week & GIVEAWAYS continue 👏🏼

IT'S FRIENDSHIP FRIDAY, and we have some crazy fun news! Starting today, if you are a Rally member and you refer a friend who also becomes a member, we will send you $10 💰

Our mission at Fertility Rally is to continue building our amazing community of #infertilitywarriors. We want anyone going through this to feel less alone, and it means EVERYTHING to us when you reco the Rally to your besties. You are also welcome to invite them to our Saturday Pajamas and S'Prize Party to see what it's all about 🎉

Remember, we are all in this together 👯‍♀️

The deets: Make sure your friend mentions your name when they join (there's a place for them to drop your name). Offer ends Sunday 8/16 at 10pmET ⏰

OH! And you know we have a GIVEAWAY!!! @infertiletees has offered a pair of her ADORABLE rainbow earrings to one of our members! To enter to win, tag three #ttcsisters who aren’t already a Rally mem, like this post & follow both @marilynbgomez & @infertiletees 💕

XOXO Ali and Blair

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Aug 13

Dear Rally Members,

Thank you for being so amazing this week and always! We have loved getting the pictures, fun facts, videos & beyond. Getting to know you guys & watching our Rally fam grow continues to be the highlight of our days!

To thank you for being members of our kick ass community, we have partnered with amazing brands/people that we love to bring you FOUR giveaways today 🎉

To enter:

1) Like this post

2) Follow @myvitro, @cozywarriororg, @beli.baby & @thewaitinglinebook

3) In comments, tell us what @FertilityRally means to you in one sentence!

#rallylikeamofo Blair & Ali

**There will be 4 separate winners. Entry cut off is at 10:00 PM EST**

Giveaway deets:
• 1 pair of Cozy Warrior socks
• 1 bottle of Beli men’s Vitality vitamins
• 1 copy of The Waiting Line
• MyVitro Travel Case, Hot + Cold Pack & Injection Trainer

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Aug 12

Let the celebration continue! Today, on #womancrushwednesday, we are loving on allll our members.

#infertility doesn’t define us, and we want to celebrate the things that make our amazing members unique. Check out our stories to learn fun facts about all of these babes 💕

Love this puzzle grid because it goes to show when we all come together, it is a beautiful thing #rallylikeamofo

GIVEAWAY OF THE DAY: more @cozywarriororg socks!!! They’re simply the best and we live in ours! Rally members, drop another fun fact about yourself below to be entered to win! 🧦

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Aug 11

OMG are we excited!!! Today we are stepping aside to give some of our members the 🎤

We might be the WORST CLUB, but we have the BEST MEMBERS. Each have their own unique story to share and we want to celebrate that!

From 10:00 AM EST to 5:00 PM EST, you’ll hear from these 7 amazing women in our stories. Handles listed below so you can go follow them if you don’t already...

@prequeltoparenthood
@infertilityandmepodcast
@willhikefordonuts
@memyselfmillie
@jpsbivfjourney
@infertileandimpatient
@infertilechronicles

Oh, and you know we are doing another member giveaway today!!! Members, tell us in the comments below, about one amazing person you’ve met in Fertility Rally and be entered to win a pair of @cozywarriororg WARRIOR socks 🧦

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Aug 10

HAPPY MEMBER CELEBRATION WEEK!

We love you all so much & we are so excited to kick off the week with a killer offer! You purchase anything in our merch store, we refund you 50% back. Yeah you read that right - half off everything. Time to put some Rally in your wardrobe!

We have new designs! One for the men and the other for our fellow, “Partners in Claw”!!!!

Don’t forget about our tried and true designs - Worst Club. Best Members., My Best Friend’s Name is Wanda, & Kick Today’s Ass to name a few.

Ready for another surprise?! Each year, we plan to have a signature Rally tee to remember all the fun we’ve had and we want YOU to design it. Have a hilarious/ridic quote or image that makes you smile that you’ve always wanted on a tee?! Now is the time. We are accepting designs and ideas from our members this entire week - and at Saturday’s PJ & S’Prize Party, we will pick the winner together!

ALSO... every day this week we are coming at you with giveaways! Today, if you throw a t-shirt idea in comments, you get entered to win a Rally merch item of your choice!

Time to shop!!! We can’t wait to see you all in your new Rally merch! 💥 👚 💥

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Aug 7

We are so thankful to our annual members who joined in July under our, “YOU JOIN, WE GIVE” campaign.

We are thrilled to be sending a % of our proceeds to the amazing women at @wecanwearwhite to help further their mission of #fibroidawareness!

While the month of July is over and #fibroidawarenessmonth has come to a close, their work never stops! Keep on doing amazing things ladies - we are so happy to be able to help, even in the smallest of ways. #womensupportingwomen

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Aug 6

This is the OG email that started it all.

When I (Ali) first started my podcast, Infertile AF, in 2019, Blair wrote me this great note. The line, "My husband and I have gone through a fuck ton of shit," made me love her immediately—and I wrote right back. Blair was on my podcast (Episode 8!), and when she started her Fab Fertility pod, I was on her show (Episode 6!). Then we did a mutual Instagram takeover, started texting and DMing nonstop, and a best friendship was born. We bonded over how shitty and lonely and overwhelming infertility is, and how we both had goals of blasting stigmas and making people everywhere feel empowered, loved, and less alone.

In late 2019, armed with a mutual desire to celebrate this amazing community of infertility badasses, we started planning our IRL event, Fertility Rally. The name Rally meant EVERYTHING, since it connoted both a raucous, fun gathering of like-minded people and a chance for everyone to rally around and lift each other up.

Then, in lockdown, we had to pump the brakes on the IRL event (but don't worry—it's still happening and we will announce our plans very soon!), and we realized we didn't want to do just one event—we wanted to Rally with this community 24/7.

I’d started calling it the Worst Club with the Best Members, and that became our Rally tagline. On June 1, we launched our membership site, the place I wish had existed when I was going through secondary infertility, and the place Blair needs now as she's in the midst of her fifth IVF cycle. Our members are incredible. Everyone is welcome. Professionally, it’s the hardest and best thing we've ever done.

A lot can happen in a year. A lot can happen when you email a random stranger and put your heart on the line.
Blair and I never would have met if it weren’t for this amazing community. And we're thankful for each and every one of you every day.

Keep sharing your hard stories. Keep lifting up the women around you.

You never know what will come of it.
✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
#partnersinclaw
#rallylikeamofo

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Aug 5

Find a quiet place to sit & listen to these words. They are so incredibly empowering.

We could not be more excited to have the amazing Lisa White (@ivf.manifesting.a.miracle), author of Hold On, Baby!, and Fertility Coach on to lead our Rally Together Support Group tonight!

By walking us through her MIRACLE MINDSET, she will show us how we can go on a discovery of self unlike any other so we can be reminded of our personal power.

Members, don’t forget to RSVP! If you’re interested in this event and ones just like it, visit the link in our bio for how to join our Rally fam as a member! #rallylikeamofo

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Aug 4

POP THOSE BOTTLES! Do you like surprises?! We LOVE them & we are announcing a huge one today 🍾🎉

Next week, every single day, we will be celebrating our members in some very special way. We have had a blast coming up with exciting surprises - next week is going to be full of smiles!

We are the worst club with the best members. Our members make us great, and we look forward to spoiling them 💕

Been on the edge of whether or not to join or even hearing about us for the first time?! To get in on the action, visit the link in our bio to learn how to join! 👯‍♀️ #rallylikeamofo

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Aug 3

Who doesn’t love a good dare?! 😂

As you know, we love to start the week off with a little humor! We love all of you so much and hope you had an amazing weekend.

Lots of fun stuff planned at the Rally this week including our Wednesday Rally Together Support Group alllll about the “Miracle Mindset” with the amazing @ivf.manifesting.a.miracle - members don’t forget to RSVP!

Not a member?! What are you waiting for?! We are a ton of fun and love supporting all of you through your journeys. Link in bio for more deets @fertilityrally

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Jul 31

We love this! And we love @jennjaypal 💕

Join us & Jay tonight at 7:30 EST on ZOOM for our Rally Roundup happy hour where we can guaranty real talk and lots of smiles!

Rally Roundup is our monthly happy hour for EVERYONE! It’s free to come - all you have to do is RSVP by following the link in our bio @fertilityrally ZOOM deets will be sent to your email immediately upon registering🥂

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Jul 30

$500 OFF #IVF - say whaaaaat?! We thought it would be perfect coming off our, FUND YOUR FERTILITY WITHOUT GOING BROKE event, to highlight our partner this month, @ExtendFertility!

Extend Fertility is a forward-thinking, highly respected clinic in Manhattan, founded by Dr. Joshua Klein. Dr. Klein has appeared on the Rally for our ALL THINGS IVF event and also helped Ali being her son, Sonny, into the world in 2015!

HOLY SMOKES are we excited about our partnership this month. For a limited time, Extend is offering an incredible discount of $500 OFF egg freezing and IVF cycles for all Fertility Rally Members!!!!! So if you’re amidst treatments in the New York area or are willing to travel and looking for ways to save, this is an incredible option!

If you are not yet a member, visit the link in our bio to join @fertilityrally

Thanks, Extend 🙏🏼 💕

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Jul 29

Feeling this photo so hard. Saying the words IVF and money in same sentence gives us hives b/c we have both been there. That’s why we are so damn excited about our event tonight w/ @the_fertility_finance_coach, FUNDING YOUR FERTILITY WITHOUT GOING BROKE.

You will walk away from this event with tangible tips and tricks you can apply ASAP to start making, saving, and manifesting money for your treatments!

8:00 PM EST - link in bio to sign up! If the time doesn’t work, still buy the ticket b/c you’ll get the recording via email after! It’s only $4.99 and if you’re a member, it’s free! Don’t miss out on this kick ass opportunity 💰 🎉

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Jul 28

#INFERTILITY IS EXPEN$IVE! What if we told you we are hosting an hour-long event packed w/ tools to help you save $100’s, if not $1000’s, for treatments with ease?

Tomorrow night, w/ the help from @the_fertility_finance_coach, we are! Follow the link in our bio to snag your spot for $4.99! ONLY A FEW SPOTS LEFT! 💵 💥 💪🏽

**this event is free for Rally mems**

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Jul 27

Sometimes our friends that have not been “blessed” with #infertility can’t do anything right! Even the honesty hurts A LOT. Hang in there if you’ve have some news like this dropped on you lately.

Better yet, come RALLY with us... we will make you forget alllll about it 🎉 #rallylikeamofo

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Jul 26

We love our members so much! @jpsbivfjourney - you light up every call you’re on with your amazing energy and overall support and love you show towards fellow members! We agree, a community who RALLIES together, stays together! And yes, we are STRONG 💪🏽 Thank you for being you 💕

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